- -Is Effeminate a "Bad Word"in Shorts?

Grammar's

Effeminate vs. Feminine

Can I be both? If in grammar, both adjectives mean "Womanly," so why not. As I'm definitely a girly-girl...

....But, social bias says, well, yes and no. 

Because although a woman can be effeminate without negativity, societal rules dictate negativity for the same adjective in reference to men. As a man having characteristics and ways of behaving that are traditionally associated with women are regarded as inappropriate! 

 So, What's your take?

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